Anonymous asked: my partner wants to go down on me. I'm fifteen and I've never been tested and sort of scared. what precautions are necessary? (I am female)
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The main thing is if your partner gets cold sores, always always use dental dams.
Dental dams are a thin sheet of (usually latex) used as protection during cunnilingus or analingus. They keep both the person receiving the oral sex and giving it from exchanging germs or STDs. Many STDS are passed through oral sex. You can buy them in some sex stores and online or make them by either cutting a condom’s tip off and cutting it down the side, or by cutting the fingers off a glove and cutting down around the thumb. You can also use non-microwavable seran wrap. They can also be used with vagina on vagina sex (Tribadism or scissoring) by attaching a larger sheet of dental dam using a dental dam harness or garter belt clips.
Dental dams are the main way of having safer sex during oral sex. Other posts that may be of interest to you are
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